Well. THAT went well.
Sep. 21st, 2011 08:50 amThe United States of America, land of opportunity and exceptionalism, celebrated its first day yesterday with its military able to openly accept servicemen and women of all sexual orientations.
In greater Boston, the people celebrated by ripping down an LGBT flag outside a Unitarian church. (This isn't yours, is it,
liddle_oldman? Or is yours the one they mention in Watertown, which had its flag ripped down and torched two years ago?)
And closer to our home (one district over from where we live), a brutally bullied young man, two weeks into his high school career, killed himself.
Meanwhile, there was no great reaction from the pack of rats scurrying to take over the country 14 months from now. Instead, we have to rely on their past statements to know how they feel.
How about you, famed pray-away-the-gayer Michele Bachmann?
In 2006, Bachmann told the Minnesota state legislature that passing an anti-bullying bill would be a waste of time.
I think for all of us, our experience in public schools is there have always been bullies. … Always have been, always will be. I just don’t know how we’re ever going to get to the point of zero tolerance. … What does it mean. … Will we be expecting boys to be girls?
Sigh.
We have to do better than "It gets better." We have to help MAKE it better. Call out the bullies when they first start showing those tendencies, and teach them love and acceptance even if it means they're in timeout or worse, even if it's our own Little Darling Special Snowflake little boy. (Or girl- they can be just as mean and intolerant.)
And for God's sake, people, vote. Because we're dealing with a political enemy which (as a recent metaquoter put it and as I've thought myself many times in recent years) thinks that The Handmaid's Tale is a how-to manual.